Monday, September 30, 2013
Never let a job you hate ruin your life
It's good to be back to writing again on the computer due to my long term absence. I am very grateful myself to be back. Folks! yall just don't know. I would rather be writing and getting e-mails and questions rather be working at mourning job.
However, I know that I have to work at my mourning job for the time being because it helps pays the bills, which I am very grateful. As a matter of fact, I am in the process of getting out of that job because it's something I don't like nor enjoy at all . Off that for now and into the subject matter.
It's been so many folks in this world who continue to be at a job that they don't enjoy at all. They work countless hours at the job and sometimes their pay is mostly zero to none. What I mean by zero to none is that employees aren't getting paid nothing, plus the overtime hours they have recieved. Due to all the taxes taken out of their checks, most of them feel like they worked those hours for nothing in order to pay bills or provide for their families. The end results can cause a lot of stress, anger and frustration.
Overall, it's a job they don't enjoy! It's something they hate doing that feels like the pits of hell! This means lower - level employees are rushing quickly to meet the daily requirements by supervisors or managers on that date. In order words, the supervisors and managers want it done now, if it's not done on time or in a period of time; they want to raise hell and drive those employees up the wall that the work isn't finished. No matter how hard those employees have worked to meet their deadlines, it becomes extremely stressful! When the workload is getting to way much due to meeting the deadline, employees are working as fast as they can, they can be angry and take out their anger on each other. I want to stop and say, " Can anyone of yall relate to this matter?!"
To add on to this, coworkers at a job that we don't like can really add on to the stress there. In other words, we don't get along with them, or they can sometimes on purpose try to do trifling things in order to start trouble. The same coworkers don't want to have a friendly atomsphere but only want to cause mess and drama. In order words, they don't want to work as a team.
It seems like every time most of us walk into the workplace we don't like- we feel like- " I don't want to deal with these coworkers of mine today!" I mean some coworkers can extremely get on our nervous, and drive us off the wall lol! If the readers know what I mean.
My point is that it's important not to be at a job that you don't enjoy because it's not worth it at all.
If you are at a job that you don't enjoy , it's important to go get another another job where the people are friendly and enjoyable, not at a job where folks don't want and always love to be messy all the time. No body don't have time for that mess!
If you're working at a job you don't like and fed up with it there, it's time to get in the process of doing something on the side what you love to do so that you can make enough income off that in order to get out of the job you hate , or find another job that you like and the coworkers are friendly there. It's time for you to enjoy and have a life and not let that job you hate consume you. I learned this- do a job what you love not one you hate.
As I am writing this, most folks are well know for throwing this guilt trip on others who hate or don't like their job want to put that guilt trip so that they can feel bad so they can stay longer and be more miserable there," Well you should want change in that place that you hate !"
You need to tell that individual in their face," What is the purpose being somewhere where you hate!? Why be at a place where you are being so friendly and they don't want it, you are wrong and not using your head?! I am in the process of leaving this place so that I can do what I love. Besides, It's not your place to tell me to imply change at this company, these folks going to do what they want to want to do! I'm working in here for the moment so that I can focus on getting out of this company!"
It's a fact people! If we always allow someone to put guilt trips about us being the change, and knowing ourselves that job causes a lot of stress and no enjoyment , it's going to cause more misery and guilt to which it ruins your life. This leads to nothing constant complaining to others which outside folks will get to point of being tired of hearing you constantly complaining all the time how much you hate it- they going to say " Go get another job then! Go and do something on the side that you like and build enough income from it so that you can be able to get out of there."
I tell everyone to not allow these let folks decieve you like that because it's time to make a stand and not feel guilty. You have a life, and don't let a job that you hate -ruin your life! I am not saying don't be grateful for it and we should be because it helps pays the bills for a short period until we can either replace it with a job we like, or with home based business that we love doing!.
A word of advice, if you hate a job so much and want to quit it so bad. It's always important to make sure you put yourself in position where you have another job in line so that you can leave! This means that you have made sure that you have been hired by that job so that you can quit the your previous job!
Also, home based business folks if you want to quit your job so badly! It's important to always make sure you have earned more enough income from your business so that you can leave. Or if the job has gotten too bad and extremely stressful, it would be time to apply for another job to replace your previous one for the time being.
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