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Monday, October 14, 2013

Why you need to beware of a person constantly smiling in your face

I truly apologize  about not gettting a chance to write a blog  last week due to working my mourning job for so many hours for like 11 to 10 hours just about every day, which it's very ridicious in my eyes. I can say that it's a job lol. As most of the viewers have heard me say time after time again, I enjoy my night job better than my mourning  job.

As most of you say, " Hey Tyler, Why  don't you get quit that  mourning job right now!?"  I repond back to the viewers who read this blog and say, " I would quit immediately if I wasn't for my bills lol!" I do have a plan to quit and leave my mourning job in the future. I want to immediately get off that subject and jump on my topic that I want to address on here.

Some people might view this the wrong way or might get extremely offended.  I might get crucfied for what will be addressed and mentioned on here. I will tell you right now, I stand ready to go for my cruxificition! Yes, I will not be bothered with any person getting mad or offended if you don't carefully read and take this the wrong way. In addition, I will say this to any person if  you  can't stand the heat of this topic; please get the hell out the kitchen!!!!!!!!  I am not trying to be rude, but this is me being myself to the readers and not being fake!

I want  the viewers in this audience  to realize that I have nothing against smiling or any nature like that, but I want you to be aware when an individual is constantly smiling in your face! Why is this? a smile is rarely real but a lot of times is fake.I view most smiling folks wearing  make-up, which is  fake-up. Thier make up is fake-up.

For example, when one  puts on make-up on their face  to cover up any thing to make their face look good before going to work or to an event. When it's all set and done, one  has wash all that make up off and back to their regular expression.

So what is leading to? Most smiling folks will  act one way in your face, and then be a backstabber or  their  trueselves will  come out soon of a later! I am telling you that a smile isn't always what you think it is! A smile doesn't always mean that person is excited. A smile doesn't always mean that person is happy all the time!  To add to that, a smile isn't always cute!!!!!!!  A person who has one the most cutest smiles, and their hearts are not right! A person  can sometimes have pretty smile, and can be crooked and extremely deceptive. A person who has the prettiest smile can be the biggest backstabber.   

So readers, it's important to watch out for folks who are constantly smiling in your face, because it's not what you think. A smile can be tricky and not always cute, don't let folks fool and deceive you that a smile is always real.

Here are some reasons  why you need to beware of a person  when they are constantly smiling

(1).  A individual who constantly smiles in your face,  their smile can mean that  he or she wants something from you. They will be so nice and conieving  about it at first so that they can get what they want out of you! They are so fake about  their smile.Watch out for this one. 

(2). An individual who smiles  your face in front of guests  excited to see you, their smile doesn't always mean they are excited to see you. That person is constantly smiling towards because  they 're putting  up a show around room full of guests.  They  are smiling in front of folks, but their vibes always say I can't stand you or I hate you. Or sometimes, that person' will smile, but hide it extremely nicely, and soon of later it's going to come out.
    I tell you watch a person's vibes, their vibration will tell you a lot, not the smile. Don't never pay attention to a person's smile, watch the vibrations.

(3). This one, folks are going to  extremely get offended by this one, but I don't care! Watch a person who smiles all the time and then getting down your throat all the time that you need to smile. I can't stand it with a passion.folks who constantly telling you to smile because it's not good in their liking that you don't never smile while coming into their presence, and they get so fucking offend because you don't smile for them or if you don't smile quote on quote.

 Let me say something, and I might lose a lot of  respect for saying this!    Just because a person doesn't smile in your liking when  just because you don't like it  in your eyes, it doesn't always  mean they are mad at the world! Get that  your head  you fake smiling folks who get down folks throat who tell them to smile!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  A person who constantly smile all the time and getting down your throat all the time to smile,
 they are really fake themselves! If they were real, they would humble themselves and ask  with a mature approach! Are you okay!? Are you angry or something and is you okay? You need someone to talk to if you, I am here to talk to! If that person was compassionate, they would be interested what is going on with that person and feel the vibes that person is angry

I am going to stop because I feel a huge rant coming on!I know I have offended some folks. I will continue this in the next blog.

I hope that you enjoyed this blog! I really thank you for the time for viewing  self help enrichment!

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

Thursday, October 3, 2013

Never let a job you hate ruin your life Part II

 It's very seldom in this day and time that a lot of people hate their jobs!   Some of them have felt that they haven't had any time for their families or have  had any time to enjoy life period!  You probably ask  the question, " What do I mean by this"?!

In other words,   most of  us can't have any time for ourselves nor our family in order to enjoy life to the fulliest to which a lot of jobs aren't reasonable at all! This leads to working very long hours for no apparent  reason, and sometimes  the supervisior or manager will announce there is no work over the weekened and will change it at the very last minute! When  mangement make the last minute announcement,  it causes  lot of frustration and losing our cool at times! 

This leads to  most of us being angry towards mangement and  making  a stand for our selves and  probably say, " Forget these folks! I had something planned over the weekened! I am putting to spend time with my children, family, or my friend first before this job! This isn't right for what they are doing! I don't like this at all! How could they do such a thing!?  Do they understand I have something important to do for this weekened and it means a lot to me?  Do this folks understand that I am  worn out and need some rest!?Do they understand this- my goodness!? They don't want me to have a life!" Some of you can relate to this as I can!

  As a result, it causes us to hate our job because of working long restless hours without getting  a whole days' worth of rest! You know what I mean,  some companies will  refer that we are not working this weekened and then change it around, or sometimes you can be on your day off and they will blow up your telephone to come in on your  day off just when one hasn't had any days of whatesoever lol!  Then some of them will leave like 10 or maybe twenty  times  during  the day!

It's funny that most of us have probably say to ourselves," I am not answering the phone, these folks are extremely crazy! I need a rest and I am not picking up the phone for them at all! After going in so much for them, they should give me a raise about now! I won't do it this time and not worth it!" 

Due to working so much, most of us have probably felt that we  don't have no life  at all! We can't be free to be ourselves!  Most of us feel angry and frustrated because of working countless hours, and we sacrifice ourselves  to work that long because of our bills have to be paid!

In contrast from that, do you think   I am   presenting this topic as being ungrateful; no I am not at all! I'm presenting these things so that you have to make a stand and not allow working too many hours to cause you to hate and ruin your life!   

  Whenever your job have your working long hours and haven't any time to yourself nor a day off, you should take a stand and make a day off because you need it! You probably saying, " is that taking a huge risk of getting fired!?"

It might be a huge risk, but you should always know when your body need rest very badly! Your health is very important, and understanding that it could end you up in the hospital if you don't have rest the body for the whole day! The body needs to rest the whole day, which I repeat again!

If you need rest badly, you should call in or do something of that necessity to make a stand! If the job doesn't understand, then it would be time to look for another one, or make and create another source of income! 

 To add to that statement ,when a job doesn't understand you need rest badly, it shows you that they don't care about you as their employee!

Thank you so much by stopping  by self-help enrichment

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

Monday, September 30, 2013

Never let a job you hate ruin your life

It's good to be back to writing again on the computer due to my long term absence. I am very grateful myself to be back. Folks!  yall just don't know.  I would  rather be writing and getting e-mails and questions rather be  working at mourning job. 

However, I know that I have to work at my mourning job for the time being because it helps pays the bills, which I am very grateful.  As a matter of fact, I am in the process of getting out of that job because  it's something I don't like nor enjoy at all . Off that for now and into the subject matter.

It's been so many folks in this world who  continue to be at a job that they don't enjoy at  all.  They work countless hours at the job and  sometimes their pay is mostly zero to none.  What I mean by zero to none is that employees aren't getting paid nothing, plus the overtime hours  they have recieved.  Due to all the taxes taken out of their checks, most of them feel like they worked those hours for nothing  in order to pay bills  or provide for their families.  The end results can  cause a lot of stress, anger and frustration. 

Overall, it's a job they don't enjoy!  It's something they hate  doing  that feels like the pits of hell!   This means  lower - level employees are rushing quickly to meet the daily  requirements by supervisors or managers on that  date.   In order words,  the supervisors and managers want it done now, if it's not done on time or  in a period of time;  they want to raise hell and  drive those employees up the wall  that the work isn't finished.  No matter how hard those employees  have worked to meet their deadlines,  it becomes extremely stressful! When the workload is getting to way much due to meeting the deadline, employees are working as fast as they can, they can  be angry and take out their anger on each other.  I want to stop and say, " Can anyone of yall relate to this matter?!" 

 To add on to this,  coworkers at a job that we don't like can really add on to the stress there. In other words, we don't get along with them, or they  can sometimes on purpose try to do trifling things in order to start trouble.  The same coworkers don't  want to have a friendly atomsphere  but only want to cause mess  and drama.  In order words, they don't want to work as a team.

 It seems like every time most of us walk into the workplace we don't like- we feel like- " I don't want to deal with these  coworkers of mine today!"  I mean some coworkers  can extremely  get on our nervous, and drive us  off the wall lol!  If  the readers know what I mean.

 My point is that  it's important  not to be at a job that you don't enjoy because it's not worth it at all. 
 If you are at a job that you don't enjoy , it's important to go get another another job where the people are friendly and enjoyable, not at a job where folks don't want and always love to be messy all the time.  No body don't have time for that mess!

If you're  working at a  job you don't like and fed up with it there, it's time to get in the process of doing something on the side what you love to do  so that  you can make enough income off that  in order to get out of the job you hate , or find another job that you like and the coworkers are friendly there. It's time for you to enjoy and have a life and not let that job you hate consume you.   I learned this- do a job what you love not one you hate.

As I am writing this, most folks  are well know for throwing this guilt trip on others who hate or don't like their job want to put that guilt trip so that they can feel bad so they can stay longer and be more miserable there," Well you should want change   in that place that you hate !"

You need to tell that individual in their face," What is the purpose being  somewhere  where you hate!? Why be at a place where you are being so friendly and they don't want it, you are wrong and not using your head?! I am in the process of leaving this place so that I can do what I love. Besides, It's not your place to tell me to imply change at this company, these folks going to do what they want to want to do! I'm working in here for the moment so that I can focus on getting out of  this company!"

It's a fact people! If we always  allow someone to put guilt trips about us being the change, and knowing ourselves that job causes a lot of stress  and no enjoyment , it's going to cause more misery and guilt to which it ruins your life. This leads to nothing constant complaining to others which outside folks will get to point of being  tired of hearing you constantly complaining all the time  how much you hate  it- they going to say " Go get another job then!  Go and do something on the side that you like and  build enough income from it so that you can be able to get out of there."

    I tell everyone  to  not allow  these  let folks decieve you like that because it's time to make a stand and not feel guilty. You have a life, and don't let a job that you hate -ruin your life! I am not saying  don't be grateful for it  and we should be because it helps pays the bills for  a short period until we can either replace it with a job we like, or with home based business that we  love doing!.

A word of advice,  if  you hate a job so much and want to quit it so bad.  It's always  important to make sure you put yourself in position where you have another job in line so that you can leave!  This means  that you have made sure  that you  have been hired by that job so that you can quit the your previous job!

Also, home based business folks if you want to quit your job so badly! It's important to always make sure you have earned  more enough income from your business so that you can leave. Or if the job  has gotten too bad and  extremely stressful, it would be time to apply for another job to replace your previous one for the time being.

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Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Where have I been lately: What took you so long to come back

It's has been almost a year since I been on my blog!  I apologize during my absence, which might be alright to everyone who have continued to read to my blog!

The reason why it took me so long to come back on here is because of being held down with two jobs, and that going here and there!   When I got too consumed with working two jobs and things going on life, I lost vision and focus on writing concerning the needs of all the readers and my subscribers!

Due to mainly working so much at my mourning job long dreaded hours like 9- 12 hours to which most of the time 5-7 days a week, I was so tired from my mourning job to which it's like a tick  sucking the life out of a dog! After feeling drained and so tired then sometimes don't have to go to my mourning job, I will admit that I didn't feel like cooking dinner!  I just took a shower and went to straight to bed because of feeling so drained feeling like sugar free gum! Also, it made me feel that I didn't have no life at all! I will tell you that working two jobs is very draining, but it does pays the bills and etc lol!

However,  I do have a plan to be out of my mourning job and keep my night job so that I have lot of  time to write on here in order to focus on what do my subscribers and readers need! I feel like working two jobs isn't worth it, and my mourning job to which I don't enjoy at all! My night job on the other hand, I like and enjoy it there a whole lot better than my mourning job!

In addition, my times at my mourning job gets switched all the time like I have to get up at 3, 4, or 5 o' clock in the mourning, but every blue moon it can be 2 or 6 o' clock in the mourning!  The hours switch up so much until  I  sometimes don't know what the hours are going to be for the whole week!  Too, I don't know if I have to work on weekeneds or not because there always last minute announcement there, and it sucks!

  I will tell you that I miss writing on here a whole lot, and not my mourning job! When I write, I feel like I writing to help or let people relate to what I am saying! From now on, I will be on here writing blogs! I will present new opportunties, which it will be presented and disclosed on the top of my blog!

Thanks everyone for reading, I will be writing  on here hopefully twice a week!! Stay tuned

Until the next post- have a great evening

Copyright(©) Tyler J.Logan


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